ConnectTone

ConnectTone is a free app that helps you understand the type and the health of important interpersonal connections in your life based on a simple yet elegant color mixing method called IRIS.

You can pick anybody out of your existing Twitter contacts and compare how you feel about them versus how they feel about you, and see how these feelings may change over time. All it takes is for both of you to adjust three simple sliders on your connection's profile. You can apply this method to friends, family, clients, colleagues, romantic interests and everything in between.

ConnectTone can help you sort out your own feelings towards your connections and be aware of how they feel about you and use this information to learn which relationships are mutual and which are imbalanced. That way, you can focus on those that matter and avoid investing too much emotions on those that are out of whack by detecting the conflicts early.

Relationships are often complicated. It all starts with a gray area. You discover somebody new. Sometimes you jump into conclusions right away. But often, meaningful connections grow over time. It’s never black and white. Humans are social animals. Yet we struggle to understand and communicate our feelings towards our connections. We often have to keep guessing how somebody important to us feels about us. Is there attraction? Is it love? Is there trust? Does she like me? Does he respect me? Is it just a casual acquaintance? Do they want something else? Knowing what’s going on with your relationships is key to your emotional mindfulness.

Don’t get carried away with accumulating friends and contacts. Don’t spend countless hours trying to meet new people. Focus on the people that you already know and those that matter to you the most. Real life is not about liking and disliking entirely. It’s a rich combination of many things. Embrace that beautiful complexity and understand what’s going on with your relationships. ConnectTone helps you discover the fascinating tonality of your connections.