Gayby - Find a Gay Sperm Donor

Gayby helps LGBTQ+ individuals and allies safely match and connect with known donors and surrogates — find donors with sperm, eggs, embryos, or gestational carriers.

Whether you're dreaming of becoming a parent or ready to help others grow their families, Gayby offers a safe, welcoming, and transparent space to connect.

WHY GAYBY?

Vetted Donors
All profiles are screened by our matchmaking team. No anonymous sketchy donors—just real people with good intentions.

Mutual Matching
You’re in control. Recipients and donors connect only when both agree. Get to know each other before making any decisions.

Search Filters That Matter
From ethnicity and education to involvement level, easily find someone who aligns with your vision of family.

Concierge Support (Optional)
Need help navigating the legal, medical, or emotional steps? Upgrade to our premium concierge service for white-glove guidance.

Modern, Easy Experience
Swipe, match, and message just like a dating app—only this one’s for growing your family, not your follower count.

Real Stories. Real Families.
Our founder’s daughter is living proof Gayby works. Families like yours are already forming. Join the movement.

FEATURES

Match with gay sperm donors, egg donors, or surrogates

Customize your filters by race, location, education, and more

Private in-app chat and safety tools

Transparent donor intentions (known/anonymous, involvement level)

Track your matching journey

Optional concierge service for hands-on help

JOIN GAYBY
Whether you're a hopeful parent or an LGBTQ+ donor looking to give the greatest gift—your story starts here.

Disclaimer:
Gayby is not a healthcare provider or licensed medical service. We do not offer fertility, legal, or medical advice. Gayby is also not a dating app. It is a connection and communication platform designed to help LGBTQ+ individuals and families safely match and message with potential donors or surrogates.